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Saturday, May 16, 2009

Can anyone say wat is love????????

Love s not wat u c, not wat u think, not wat u hear, not wat u achieve, its all that u feel in urself..U touch ur heart nd feel the touch of tat person, u close ur eyes and hav the picture of tat person, u take a deep breath n feel the closeness of tat person, u r in luv not wen u think u r in luv, u r not in luv wen u want to b in luv, u r not in luv just coz of som gd looks of a person, in fact u r in luv wen u keep telling urself u want to b away from luv, luv is wen u die for a glance of tat person, luv is wen u ready to do anything just for a smile from tat person, luv is wen u have tears in eyes for that person, luv is wen u start praying to god for the well being of tat person even if tat person's not ur future, luv is not invented, not created, not produced, but its felt by ur heart and then u have a reason to laugh, cry , smile, to live life and make it precious...
I dont say fall in luv but just want to say feel the luv if it is there..Love life

Since a very long time ago, people have searched for the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers, with their profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence. In a survey of 4-8 year olds, kids share their views on love. But what do little kids know about love? Read on and be surprised that despite their young and innocent minds, kids already have a simple but deep grasp of that four-letter word

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.”

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.”

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”

"Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsome then Robert Redbird."

Quite interesting definitions right, which was said by these kids, isnt.

Friday, April 17, 2009

Happy?? Do u want to be.....Here r few ways to lead

Isn't it better to make every attempt to live a happy and satisfied life and help others to do the same? A famous person once said, "Give enough people what they want and you will get what you want too." The problem is that negative circumstances and problems seem to crowd our lives. The result is that often people become overwhelmed, discouraged and depressed. How can you move from feeling negative, despite all that is around you that makes you feel much less positive than you would like to be? Below are "10 Steps to Being Happy Now". Just hav a look at it.
1. Decide ur way: Just realize the fact, whether good or bad its just feelings, which means u can change them. Its u who deciding it to feel in a certain way. None others can say u how to feel.
2. Think over: Our mind is like a computer, it will play back to us watever u give it. If we focus on -ve things, then this will result result in our thought and actions ending up in doing negative things. Whenever u get a -ve thinking just replace with a +ve thing.
3. Evaluate:Reflect on all the good things there are in your life. The fact that you are even able to evaluate your situation and move toward some positive outcome is a good thing.
4. Smart actions: We can also say feeling as a signal that our body gives you to tak action. So be aware of it, evaluate it smartly n take steps instead of ending up in doing wrong actions which makes the condition to get more worse.
5. Burry the past: Sometimes events trigger negative associations from the past and we are not even aware of this. A long passed event buried in our subconscious mind can resurface. Therefore be as aware of your past as possible and reinforce negative events with positive ones in your mind.
6. Spend Time: Take time to step outside of your situation and do some good for someone else. Even if it is just listening to someone or offering your time to them. This is a worthwhile contribution and a valuable gift. Time is limited so when you give some away for the good of others, you really are giving of yourself.
7. Way of thinking: Remember that the person you are now is the result of all your past thoughts and actions. So, u hav to use ur thoughts in a +ve way, it might ur outcomes so that u begin living a more fulfilled n happy life.
8. Be an optimist: Have it in mind, a sad or depressed circumstances is only for a specific time. U got to realise and come out of it with a fresh outlook and optimism.
9. Ur attitude: Resolve that the most important choice you can make on a daily basis regardless of your circumstance is your choice of attitude.
10.Materialistic things can't bring happiness: Being happy is not dependent on what you have. Some of the poorest people on the planet are the happiest. In contrast, some of the richest are the unhappiest. If you set your happiness on things, you will always be disappointed. True happiness comes from inside. This is often related to finding something bigger than us to believe it.

If u are tired by reading such a big post, here s a simple post for u:
1. Keep ur mind busy, dont fuss about it with trifles.
2. Nobody can hurt u, other than urself.
3. Be aware that gud deal of damage is caused by instant reactions.Bcoz its the reaction to the problem which hurts more than the problem itself.
4. Fill ur mind with thoughts of peace, courage, health, hope n prayer.
5. Don't complain, condemn or criticize others for ur worse situation. Its only u who created it.
6. Welcome ur day with smile and enthusiasm n live it througout.
7. Follow 3 A's-Adjust, Accept and Appreciate other people to ensure harmonious and happy relationship.
8. Celebrate even if its a small victory. Give treat to ur friends.
9. Count ur blessings and not ur troubles.
10.Create happiness for everyone around u. To enjoy happiness, enjoy ur work

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Do u want to remove viruses from ur pen drive????

In pen drive, we can often find new folder or some viruses created. Even if we format the pen drive, again when using some other system these files get automatically created or viruses can be found. How to avoid this virus?????????
Here s the way, i hope many knew this but i am posting it for the one's who dont know about it....
  • Connect the pen drive to the USB port.
  • Just check out the drive which s available for ur pen drive (ex: H:/).
  • Click Start->Run->Type cmd->Press Enter key.
  • In the command prompt type H: and press enter
  • Then in Dos prompt type the following dir/w/o/a/p and press enter
  • Now it will display all the files fed in your pen drive.
  • Check whether any of the files which listed below exists. Autorun.inf, NewFolder.exe, Bha.vns, Iexplore.vbs, Info.exe, Newfolder.exe, Ravman.exe, RVHost.exe, also other unnecessary files with .exe extension.
  • If u notice these type of files, its definitely virus files, how to get rid of it. Type the command attrib -h-r-s-a*.* then press enter.
  • The delete the files by typing the command del file name.
  • For more security use gud antivirus software and scan the pen drive once.

Friday, April 3, 2009

Psychology of Colors

Psychology of Colors

The psychology of colours is quite interesting. Some scientists say, that with the help of psychology of colours we may identify the character of a person. Moreover, there is a belief, that colours have a great influence on our mood, choices, actions and many other different things in our life.I`d like to introduce some most acceptable for me descriptions of colours.

red: danger, passion, energy, warmth, adventure, optimism
pink: love
orange: stability, reassurance, warmth and is thought to aid digestion
green: nature and energy, calming and restful, balance (halfway between red and blue)
blue: calming and soothing, promotes intellectual thought, believed to keep hunger at bay; loyalty, serenity, authority, protection, contemplative, prevents nightmares
yellow: sunshine and energy, stimulates the intellect
lilac: spiritual matters - suggests the misty area between the sky and heaven, feminine
purple: creativity, fertility, joy, but also magic, evil, death and sex
brown: security, stability and very practical
black: death, eccentricity, drama. it's a on-colour that absorbs colour and reflects nothing back

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

SAMUDRIKA LAKSHANAM- FACE READING

PHRENOLOGY OR SAMUDRIKA LAKSHANAM- FACE READING
Phrenology PHRENOLOGY is one of the most traditional techniques of predicting a person's character, personality, behaviour their attitude and their success in life. Human face exhibits a lot of characters of that particular person. The nose, eyes, mouth and various other parts of the human face are just the reflection of the human being's character. The various attributes of the face that help in arriving at the person's total personality are nose, mouth, lips, tooth, head, hair, cheek, forehead eyebrow etc. All our future, present or past may well be defined and determined by our own facial structure. Face is the index of the mind. It tells all about our character, our destiny and your future. The predominant and most important subject is the Samudrika Lakchana written by the Samudra raja (King of the sea). He has written the most pioneer subject which deals all about all your organs from top to toe. Every part of your body even including your hair and nail have a definite and positive prediction to reveal about you. A very fraction and marginal quantum of it is being widely used today in the forensic departments. While this helps them for digging out the culprit, it has lot more to reveal about their destiny. This Phrenology otherwise known as Face reading subject is popularly used by the eminent astrologers in India for completely drafting one's future. There were eminent astrologers and soothsayers who could just see the little finger of a person and draw their entire portrait and precisely pinpoint their future happenings. In the present modern times, we apply this for understanding the nature of the persons and also guide them for a more prospective future. While this facial structure is permanent, and not totally changeable, it could certainly be modified and better presentation of yourself could be made for winning others and achieving your objective. All of us have the same face with almost a similar nose, ears, eyes, forehead and the mouth. They are called the PANCHENDRIAS otherwise known as the five important organs. It is also said in the Indian art that head is the most important part of the entire anatomy. It is like the engine of a motorcar. With this as the basis, we give some of the tips to see for yourself this art of studying your own face as well as the others.
1. Fore Head
2 . Eye Brow
3. Eye
4. Nose
5. Mouth
6. .Lips
7. Tooth
8. Head
9. Hair
10. Cheek
GENERAL FOREHEAD
If the length of the Forehead is smaller than the length of the nose, the person is considered not be intelligent. Generally people with a big forehead are Intelligent. For e.g.: Margaret Thatcher.

EYEBROW
People with the Eyebrow in the shape of a Boomerang do only what they think . They don't generally give importance to others opinions. If the Eyebrow is attached to the eyes and is inclined down, these people are insecure in nature. People with a straight eyebrow are dependent on others and will live an ordinary life.If the top of the eyebrow is triangular in shape, then these people are very efficient.Similarly people with Eyebrow is in the shape of crescent, have a good imagination. They are very efficient in all the work they do and will be money minded. If the outer portion of the Eyebrow is broad and the inner shrunk, then these people will have leadership qualities. If the eyebrow is inclined upwards, these people may be troublesome. People with the eyebrow is inclined downwards are subdued in nature.Thick eyebrows are characteristics of rude and violent people.

EYE
Generally eyes with eyeballs not moving up and down and without any dots is good to look at. Persons with sparkling eyes are attractive and will be liked by all. For example Princess Diana had a sparkling eyes and she was loved by all.People with the eyeballs resting up or down are very dangerous. They have a wavering mind and won't be believed. e.g. :Hitler. If the eyeballs is touching the base, while normal, it is not good. These people generally have a short life and will undergo many torturous moments in their life. In normal position, if the eyeball is in the center without touching either the base or the upper portion, then these people are dangerous in nature. Persons whose length of the eye is larger than the breadth do absurd work and they are suspicious of others motives. Persons with lengthy eyes are mostly efficient and are generally take up the field of Industries and commerce where they outshine others. Persons with small Eyes are generally introverts. Most of the Scientists have small eye.

NOSE
People with a lengthy nose and a round tip are generally good natured. In general the nostrils should not be visible in normal view. If the nose tip is bent upwards and nostrils seen, then these people are generally spendthrifts. People with their Nose tip inclined towards mouth are generally pervert and selfish.If the top of the nose is broad then these people generally live a short life. If the nostril is square in shape, these people are adamant and always complain that others are headstrong. People with triangular nostrils spend less.

MOUTH
The mouth should neither be small nor big. Both the lips should be equal in size and should be pink in color. When the mouth is closed, the corners should point upwards. For males it should be strong but not be rigid. For females it should be smooth. People with a lengthy mouth will be generous. They won't have any ambition and generally will not believe anyone. LIPS Persons with thin lips generally do not move with others. While the mouth is closed there shouldn't be any gap between the lips. If there is a gap, then these people tend to be crude.People with Upper lip thicker than the lower lip, are generally kind in nature and love others. People expect the love of others if it is the other way around.If the lips form a straight line when closed, they will be calculative. If the lips are curved then they will be good hearted people. TOOTH When laughed, if the upper teeth is seen then they will be good hearted. If both the upper and lower tooth are seen then they will be open hearted. It is not advised for females to have both the upper and lower teeth visible when they laugh. It shows that the person has inferiority complex. HEAD If the head is high, then it indicates that the person will have a long life. If head like an elephant, will enjoy all good things in life and will be a good thinker. If it appears as if two heads are joined together, then the person will be in poverty. If the head is like an umbrella then he will live like a king. If the head is like a ball, the person will be innovative and will succeed in life and will get fame. If the back of the head is round and front drooped, will be dull. If the back only is protruding, he will have a good memory power. If the front is protruding, the person will be low keyed in nature.

HAIR
If the hair is black and shining, without split in the tip, then the person will be very fortunate in life. If it is thick, they will be upset if they encounter any obstacles. They will be obedient to their wife. If the hair is prevalent throughout the body then the person will be short tempered. If the hair is black, thick and curly then the body will be hot. The person will be a pervert, and shrewd. If the hair is not uniform they will be opportunist Smooth and soft, they will have good world knowledge. They will be shrewd. If the hair is thick and brownish then the person will be very violent in nature. If it is thin and curly then he will be an opportunist.

CHEEK
If the cheeks are Chubby and broad then the person will inherit a lot of wealth. Otherwise they will have anormal way of life.

FOREHEAD
If the forehead is broad then the person will be wealthy and fortunate. If it is plain he will have a long life and will think and act. If it is fleshy and long then the person will be brave and be inclined more towards doing illegal activities. If it is bumpy with lots of ups and downs then he will be a very poor person. If it is narrow then the person will be aggressive and short tempered If it is curved the person will have a long life, be famous and will do good job and attain fame.If the nerves in the forehead are protruding and in disarray then the person will be addictive to liquor and will achieve misfortune.

EYEBROW
If the eyebrow is cresent shaped then the person will be wealthy and soft hearted. If it is lengthy and thick he will be rude and ruthless. If two eyebrows are bent and in the form of a bow, then the person will have ancestral property and will lead a happy life and will be kind hearted. If it is with folds then the person will bhe disrespectful towards others. If it is broad and not sharp but thick then the person will lead a happy life and will be successful in business.If the eyebrows are different from each other, then the person will have a difficult life. If it is thick and ball shaped the person will be a pervert. If it is long and thin then the person will be very calm.

Saturday, March 7, 2009

Essence of pleasure, joy & love

There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer and the fourth son in the fall.When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent and twisted.

The second son said, no, that it was covered with green buds and full of promise.

The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful. It was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.

The last son disagreed with all of them. He said it was ripe and drooping with fruit - full of life and fulfillment.

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that comes from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

Friday, March 6, 2009

Do u know why we touch elder's feet to get their blessings?????

There is an esoteric reason behind this.The extra energies of a person flow to the earth through feet... but touching the feet we get those energies.Also when elders bless by keeping their hands on our head.. the blessing energies from their agya chakra flow throw their palm chakras to our head..thus balancing our energies and giving us a boost of energies.In olden times, when people were purer at heart... this small gesture would save people from big problems... even now it works, although at lower strengths.

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Why do we ring bell in temple?????

Do u know the reason for it?????????

Answer is here:

The bell sound will make us to stop talking and close all our un necessary thought and open up mind to think about god.

Worst way to miss:( :(

There was once this guy who is very much in love withHis girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces ofpaper cranes as a gift to his girl.
Although, at that time he was just a small fry in hiscompany, his future doesn't seem too bright, they werevery happy together. Until one day, his girl told himshe was going to Paris and will never come back.
She also told him that she cannot visualize any futurefor the both of them, so they went their own waysthere and then...
Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he regained hisconfidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging hisbody and mind just to make something out of himself.
Finally with all the hard work and the help offriends, this guy had set up his own company ....
You never fail until you stop trying. One rainy day,while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couplesharing an umbrella in the rain walking to somedestination.
Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. Itdidn't take him long to realize they were his girl'sparents.
With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowlybeside the couple, wanting them to spot him in hisluxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn'tthe same any more; he had his own company, car, condo,etc. He made it! What he saw next confused him, thecouple was walking towards a cemetery, and so he gotout of his car and followed...and he saw his girl, aphotograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him fromher tombstone and he saw his paper cranes right besideher...
Her parents saw him. He asked them why this hadhappened. They explained, she did not leave for Franceat all. She was ill with cancer. She had believed thathe will make it someday, but she did not want to behis obstacle... therefore she had chow! sen to leave him.Just because someone doesn't love you the way you wantthem to, doesn't mean they don't love you with allthey have. She had wanted her parents to put his papercranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fatebrings him to her again...he can take some of thoseback with him...
Once you have loved, you will always love. For what'sin your mind may escape but what's in your heart willremain forever.
The guy just wept...The worst way to miss someone isto be sitting right beside her knowing you can't haveher, see her or be with her ever again.........hopeyou understand.
Find time to re alize that there is one person whomeans so much to you, for you might wake up onemorning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you.

KINDNESS Pays !


One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door todoor to pay his way through school, found he ! had onlyone thin dime left, and he was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house.However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young womanopened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought helooked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. Hedrank it slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?"
"You don't owe me anything," she replied "Mother hastaught us never to accept payment for a kindness." Hesaid... "Then I thank you from my heart."
As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt;stronger physically, but his faith in God and man wasstrong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.
Years later that young woman became critically ill.The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent herto the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. HowardKelly was called in for the consultation. When heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room.Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back tothe consultation room determined to do his best tosave her life. From that day he gave special attention to the case.
After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kellyrequested the business office to pass the final billto him for approval. He looked at it,then wrote something on the edge and the billwas sent to her room. She feared to open it, for shewas sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally, she looked, and somethingcaught ; her attention on the side as She read thesewords.....
"Paid in full with one glass of milk." (Signed) Dr.Howard Kelly.
Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart! prayed: "Thank You, GOD, that Your love has spreadabroad through human hearts and hands."

Friday, February 27, 2009

Laws of attraction

How can you use the law of attraction? How can you practice it? What steps do you need to take to use it? You may not believe it, but the steps you need to take are easy. But you must do them, believe in them and believe in yourself, or they will not work. So are you ready to get tuned into the universe and get clear? Are you ready to work in harmony with the laws of the universe and become successful? If so here are the steps you need to follow:
1. Get clear. You must know exactly what it is you want. If you are in doubt, vague, or too general, you won't get anywhere. You must know exactly what it is you want first. Only then will you be able to focus and concentrate on that thought.

2. Visualize what you want and vibrate to it. You must form a mental image in your mind so you can see it as if you had it in your possession. You must understand what it is you are seeing and look at it as if you can touch it. When you visualize it, you have to vibrate to it. Don't just see the image, feel it, touch it, let it become part of you. If it is a woman you want, visualize the woman you are looking for. Picture her hair color. See how tall she is. Notice her facial features. Visualize yourself holding her, hugging her. Then transfer this image to your heart and use your feelings to convey how you feel about this woman. For women, you can do the same for a man. Repeat the same process, the only difference is you will be looking at a man instead of a woman. Regardless of your sexual preference, you just have to visualize the person in front of you and see him/her as being there with you and experience the joy of that person in your presence.

3. Now allow it to be a part of you. You can allow it by simply agreeing to it and say yes to the idea that you want it. When you do this, you are in fact allowing it to come to you. If you visualize receiving a check for $1000, picture yourself accepting it while saying "yes" and "thank you." Hold it like it is yours. Embrace it. Tell the universe you acknowledge it and want it. Tell the universe "thank you for giving it to me" and then accept it. This way you are allowing it to come into your life.

4. Take action to fulfill your request. You must work in harmony with what you wish and do so without wavering. You must make a concerted effort to always dwell on wanting it. By doing so, you will attract it without any obstacles in your path. Remember, when you think, you then feel. After you feel, you take action. This action gives you your results. It works every time, no exceptions.

Meaning of different color roses

Rose of different colors symbolizes different emotions and feelings. One therefore needs to be careful while presenting a rose to loved one




Red rose symbolises love and passion.......










White rose symbolises love, purity of the mind and reverence












Yellow roses-symbol of joy, friendship n celebration













Pink roses- Friendship or Sweet heart, admiration.










Peach roses-Desire and excitement or appreciation






Lilac Roses- Love at First Sight and enchantment..








Coral roses Desire...








Bouquet of yellow and red roses- love, celebration.....






Bouquet of white and red roses-Bonding and Hormony...

History of roses

Roses have a long and colorful history. They have been symbols of love, beauty, war, and politics. The rose is, according to fossil evidence, 35 million years old. In nature, the genus Rosa has some 150 species spread throughout the Northern Hemisphere, from Alaska to Mexico and including northern Africa. Garden cultivation of roses began some 5,000 years ago, probably in China. During the Roman period, roses were grown extensively in the Middle East. They were used as confetti at celebrations, for medicinal purposes, and as a source of perfume. Roman nobility established large public rose gardens in the south of Rome. After the fall of the Roman Empire, the popularity of roses seemed to rise and fall depending on gardening trends of the time.

During the fifteenth century, the rose was used as a symbol for the factions fighting to control England. The white rose symbolized York, and the red rose symbolized Lancaster, as a result, the conflict became known as the "War of the Roses."
Roses were in such high demand during the seventeenth century that royalty considered roses or rose water as legal tender, and they were often used as barter and for payments. Napoleon's wife Josephine established an extensive collection of roses at Chateau de Malmaison, an estate seven miles west of Paris in the 1800s. This garden became the setting for Pierre Joseph Redoute's work as a botanical illustrator. In 1824, he completed his watercolor collection "Les Rose," which is still considered one of the finest records of botanical illustration.
It wasn't until the late eighteenth century that cultivated roses were introduced into Europe from China. Most modern-day roses can be traced back to this ancestry. These introductions were repeat bloomers, making them unusual and of great interest to hybridizers, setting the stage for breeding work with native roses to select for hardiness and a long bloom season. Many of these early efforts by plant breeders are of great interest to today's gardeners.

Roses are once again enjoying a resurgence in popularity, specifically, shrub roses and old garden roses. Gardeners realize that these roses fit the lifestyle of today's gardeners who want roses that are not as demanding with regard to disease control, offer excellent floral quality, have excellent winter hardiness, and fit into shrub borders and perennial gardens without seeming out of place.

To be successful in growing roses in Midwest gardens, one needs to be aware of some basic considerations. Attention to plant selection, a basic knowledge of the wide array of classes available, basic culture information, and information about potential disease and insect problems will go a long way in making roses an enjoyable addition to the garden.
This short guide to rose gardening will hopefully help sort through some of the confusion about roses and entice you to include one or more of these plants in your garden.

I will tell you who you are

John Blanchard stood up from the bench, straightened his Army uniform, and studied the crowd of people making their way through Grand Central Station. He looked for the girl whose heart he knew, but whose face he didn't, the girl with the rose. His interest in her had begun thirteen months before in a Florida library. Taking a book off the shelf he found himself intrigued, not with the words of the book, but with the notes penciled in the margin. The soft handwriting reflected a thoughtful soul and insightful mind. In the front of the book, he discovered the previous owner's name, Miss Hollis Maynell. With time and effort he located her address. She lived in New York City. He wrote her a letter introducing himself and inviting her to correspond. The next day he was shipped overseas for service in World War II. During the next year and one month the two grew to know each other through the mail. Each letter was a seed falling on a fertile heart. A romance was budding. Blanchard requested a photograph, but she refused. She felt that if he really cared, it wouldn't matter what she looked like. When the day finally came for him to return from Europe, they scheduled their first meeting - 7:00 PM at the Grand Central Station in New York. "You'll recognize me," she wrote, "by the red rose I'll be wearing on my lapel." So at 7:00 he was in the station looking for a girl whose heart he loved, but whose face he'd never seen. I'll let Mr. Blanchard tell you what happened:
A young woman was coming toward me, her figure long and slim. Her blonde hair lay back in curls from her delicate ears; her eyes were blue as flowers. Her lips and chin had a gentle firmness, and in her pale green suit she was like springtime come alive. I started toward her, entirely forgetting to notice that she was not wearing a rose. As I moved, a small, provocative smile curved her lips. "Going my way, sailor?" she murmured. Almost uncontrollably I made one step closer to her, and then I saw Hollis Maynell. She was standing almost directly behind the girl. A woman well past 40, she had graying hair tucked under a worn hat. She was more than plump, her thick-ankled feet thrust into low-heeled shoes. The girl in the green suit was walking quickly away. I felt as though I was split in two, so keen was my desire to follow her, and yet so deep was my longing for the woman whose spirit had truly companioned me and upheld my own. And there she stood. Her pale, plump face was gentle and sensible, her gray eyes had a warm and kindly twinkle. I did not hesitate. My fingers gripped the small worn blue leather copy of the book that was to identify me to her. This would not be love, but it would be something precious, something perhaps even better than love, a friendship for which I had been and must ever be grateful. I squared my shoulders and saluted and held out the book to the woman, even though while I spoke I felt choked by the bitterness of my disappointment. "I'm LieutenantJohn Blanchard, and you must be Miss Maynell. I am so glad you could meet me; may I take you to dinner?" The woman's face broadened into a tolerant smile. "I don't know what this is about, son," she answered, "but the young lady in the green suit who just went by, she begged me to wear this rose on my coat. And she said if you were to ask me out to dinner, I should go and tell you that she is waiting for you in the big restaurant across the street. She said it was some kind of test!" It's not difficult to understand and admire Miss Maynell's wisdom. The true nature of a heart is seen in its response to the unattractive.
"Tell me whom you love," Houssaye wrote, "And I will tell you who you are..."
ATTITUDE PLAN
Always making today my best day
Taking pride in a job well done
Treating others with respect
Isolating my negative thoughts
Treating tasks as opportunities
Utilizing my talents every day
Doing the job right the first time
Expecting positive outcomes daily
Speaking well of others every day......

Thursday, February 26, 2009

LOVE

Love s not wat u c, not wat u think, not wat u hear, not wat u achieve, its all that u feel in urself..U touch ur heart nd feel the touch of tat person, u close ur eyes and hav the picture of tat person, u take a deep breath n feel the closeness of tat person, u r in luv not wen u think u r in luv, u r not in luv wen u want to b in luv, u r not in luv just coz of som gd looks of a person, in fact u r in luv wen u keep telling urself u want to b away from luv, luv is wen u die for a glance of tat person, luv is wen u ready to do anything just for a smile from tat person, luv is wen u have tears in eyes for that person, luv is wen u start praying to god for the well being of tat person even if tat person's not ur future, luv is not invented, not created, not produced, but its felt by ur heart and then u have a reason to laugh, cry , smile, to live life and make it precious... I dont say fall in luv but just want to say feel the luv if it is there..Love life